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Lisa Bender's avatar

Mazel Tov! Happy for both of you. Bruce and I only really started to argue after our wedding. It felt so much safer to argue after we married even tho we had already been together for 5 years. Now, after nearly 48 years married, our fights are much briefer and more easily forgotten. We didn't fight about wedding plans with each other. Only some parental remarks about our "student-like" wedding. Well, we were both Ph.D. students at the time.

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SeminaFilligree's avatar

Yay!!! I’m so happy for you both, Lena. And I’ve been reading your substacks lately, and you have you become such a great writer! You’ve really put in the work to meet your talent. Congratulations!

xo Coach Toni

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Martha's avatar

WOW thank goodness the ring didn't blow away with those wind gusts. that could've been awkward. Speaking of, I should join the upcoming szn of rec league. hehe

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DC's avatar

❤️❤️❤️

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Dan's avatar

Jana and I did not argue about wedding plans. I didn’t want to invite Aunt Wilma and neither did she.

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Sarah Leibov's avatar

I love this Lena! Congratulations to you both!! Ps- a few arguments will happen while planning the wedding, but you won’t remember any of them 25 years later.

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Dan's avatar

Beautiful. Post a photo with YOUR ring.

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